I never thought I’d be a mom. In fact, I was dead set against the idea for many years. Obviously, I came around, and decided it was a good idea after all. When I thought about how many kids I wanted, my idea was simple: “I’d like two children, as close together as possible.” You know that saying, “Be careful what you wish for”? Two boys at once, that’s what I got. And they’re wonderful. I’m overjoyed at being the mother of twins. Overwhelmed sometimes, for sure, but grateful all the same. There they are, my little tree-huggers. Ryan Phoenix and Zachary Skye. Oh, how I love them. It takes…